Hi @Quatrecasas
Welcome to the Sonos Community!
I don’t have any personal experience with Asus routers/meshes, but I was able to find a few steps to take that should improve matters if you are having trouble:
Affected hardware
ASUS RT-AC88U Other ASUS RT or AX routers with Airtime Fairness
Symptoms
Resolution
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Log into the ASUS router.
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Under Advanced Settings, click Wireless.
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Click the Professional tab.
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Disable Airtime Fairness and click Apply.
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Change the Frequency to 5GHz.
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Disable Airtime Fairness and click Apply.
Affected hardware
Most Asus RT and AX series models
- This does not apply to the following models: DSL-AC88U, DSL-AC88U-B, DSL-AC3100, DSL-AC87VG, DSL-AC68VG and RT-N12 series.
Symptoms
- Unable to update or register one or more Players/Rooms
- Unable to stream to one or more Players/Rooms within the system
- Unable to set up rooms or Players.
- Unable to connect to Sonos.
- Missing Sonos Players/Rooms
Within the router's client list, Sonos products will appear as blocked.
Note: Confirm that the Sonos Product is shown blocked as seen above in the router's web UI.

Resolution
Using the Router's web interface:
- Open a web browser, enter the URL: http://router.asus.com.
- On the login page, enter the router's admin username and password.
- From the left side menu bar, click on AIProtection > Parental Controls > Time Scheduling.
- Turn off "Enable Block All Devices"
Using the Asus app:
- Download the Asus app on your mobile device (required to perform these steps).

- Confirm the mobile device is connected to WiFi and launch the Asus router app.
- Tap Devices.
- Scroll to the blocked Sonos device and tap on it to open a new menu.
- Disable Block Internet Access. Blocked Android device example:

- Test the Sonos app feature (connect, update, playback) that you were having trouble with. Note: You may need to reboot the affected Sonos players.
Router app Device navigation screen video:
I hope this helps.
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