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The surrounds are really dependent on the signal they get from the 5.1 mix. Not normally real loud.
Have you gone in the room settings and made sure set to Full mode. Once done how does music sound on the surrounds via the Sonos app music. That gives you a better idea of their volume since they will play in full stereo when listening to music then.
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